my dad just passed away.

[raptorddd]

just wanted to share my feeling and struggles.

the day i always feared just happened. the passing of my dear father 

theres tears on my eyes and my soul struggles with anxiety..

i havent been online for a week . my dad passed away sunday on dec 3 he was 90.

it feels so unreal, like a dream i cant believe it. it hurts so much and i miss him every day. 

i knew it was going to happen but i wasnt expecting it that soon.

may he rest in peace dear and lovely father..

[6730b]

Yes, hard times does come in life. And one should and will feel it. For quite a long time.
But do not loose faith that one will\can cope with it, in one's own way, one's own time.

In a similar situation, talking to my doctor, telling I was feeling real bad, he answered: "Yes, I understand very well. But if you had said feeling good, I'd be seriously worried". My reaction to some of life's onslaught(s): accept the need to feel as bad as the situation dictates, while not doing anything that makes anything worse, slowly rebuilding when possible.

[Eban]

On 12/8/2024 at 8:31 AM, raptorddd said:

just wanted to share my feeling and struggles.

the day i always feared just happened. the passing of my dear father 

theres tears on my eyes and my soul struggles with anxiety..

i havent been online for a week . my dad passed away sunday on dec 3 he was 90.

it feels so unreal, like a dream i cant believe it. it hurts so much and i miss him every day. 

i knew it was going to happen but i wasnt expecting it that soon.

may he rest in peace dear and lovely father..

 

I feel your pain my friend. I've lost my Dad and Wife.

I can't tell you the pain will ever be less, but it will not sting so intensely, as time passes.

Just keep going. 1 day at a time.

[raptorddd]

On 12/8/2024 at 1:45 PM, 6730b said:

Yes, hard times does come in life. And one should and will feel it. For quite a long time.
But do not loose faith that one will\can cope with it, in one's own way, one's own time.

In a similar situation, talking to my doctor, telling I was feeling real bad, he answered: "Yes, I understand very well. But if you had said feeling good, I'd be seriously worried". My reaction to some of life's onslaught(s): accept the need to feel as bad as the situation dictates, while not doing anything that makes anything worse, slowly rebuilding when possible.

thank you for your advice.

[raptorddd]

On 12/10/2024 at 2:51 PM, Eban said:

 

I feel your pain my friend. I've lost my Dad and Wife.

I can't tell you the pain will ever be less, but it will not sting so intensely, as time passes.

Just keep going. 1 day at a time.

thank you for your kind words.

i imagine that pain that you go thrugh back then. any loss even if you seen  adn not knowthat person hurts imagone family.